Disputes triggered by differences of opinion in the household are sometimes difficult to avoid. However, no matter how much conflict the Mother and Father are facing, avoid fighting in front of your child, because it will have a negative impact on his physical and psychological condition.
The parental argument referred to here is not only when Mother and Father throw physical abuse or physical quarreling, but also when Mother and Father do not talk or talk to each other.
Impact of Arguing in Front of Children
Arguing in front of a child can make him feel scared, worried, insecure, and stressed at home. This is because the sense of security a child feels is influenced by how good or strong the parent's relationship is.
If left unchecked, a fight between Mother and Father can increase the risk of your child experiencing:
- Sleep disturbance.
- Stress, anxiety and depression
- Eating disorders, such as anorexia and bulimia.
- Headache and stomachache.
- Conflicts are similar to their future partners. Remember, children are good imitators, you know.
- Drug abuse.
- Decreased confidence.
This is what Mother and Father Should Do
Arguing in a marital relationship can certainly happen. But when you disagree, as much as possible solve the problem in the room or in a place far from the reach of the observations of the Little One. If conditions outside the home are not possible, Mother and Father can argue in the room after Little Sleep.
If the Little One already saw the argument of Mother and Father, you should immediately explain to him that differences of opinion between parents are reasonable and this will be resolved properly.
When a fight occurs that makes Mother and Father not exchanging exchanges, explain to Little One that adults need time to calm down after a fight. Reassure Little that everything will be fine.
Although some children may be able to understand about parents' quarreling, Mother and Father are still not allowed to fight in front of Little One, yes.
Every household problem can actually be solved properly as long as Mother and Father can be calm and think clearly in dealing with it. If necessary, ask for the help of a psychologist who is used to handling household counseling, to resolve conflicts that Mother and Father are currently facing.
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